What Going Golfing for the First Time Taught Me

I recently had the opportunity to go golfing for the first time in Calgary, Alberta.  I grew up with very little knowledge and understanding of this sport.  Recently some of my friends (who are avid golfers) took me to the driving range and later to a city golf course and helped me gain a better understanding of the sport.  Compared to other racket sports I’ve done, this was very different, and it gave me an appreciation for the difficulty of the sport.  It took me out of my comfort zone to learn something new.  However, what I learned was something I could take into my daily life.  Often, it is easy to gravitate toward sports or activities we’re already an expert at, but sometimes trying a new sport or learning a new skill can be valuable to our personal growth.

The first lesson I learned in golf is patience.  Golf is a sport that requires patience and persistence.  When I first started, swinging the club was difficult.  Not knowing how my body was supposed to position, I was not able to hit the ball at all.  Something that looks so effortless in others was incredibly difficult.  Moreover, once you make contact with the ball, sometimes, it does not go where you intend it to go! In the very early minutes, it was easy to want to give up and do something else.  However, practicing even the basics, such as stance and body position, helped me immensely, and I was eventually able to hit the ball (albeit with abysmal distance and control over my club).

Another lesson I learned early on was the etiquette and sportsmanship.  The rules of the game are very unique and taking turns while maintaining the pace of the play creates a sense of respect and camaraderie among players.  Some may argue that golfing seems like a solo sport or with very little teamwork is required; however, interacting with others on the course is actually a huge part of the game.  Many employers would take their employees to the golf course discussing important ideas and strategies while fostering a sense of trust and respect among each other.

Be sure to plan for at least half-day worth of activity when completing 18 holes of golf.

Finally, unlike other indoor sports, golfing can be therapeutic.  I found especially during my practice at the city driving range, I appreciated the serene escape from the hustle and bustle of daily life.  On the actual golf course, the lush green fairways, tranquil lakes, and trees provide a peaceful setting to unwind.  Being in a different environment also takes your mind off any unpleasantries happening in our daily lives—whether it is stress from school or work.